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1. Introspection. Finding yourself.
2. Exploration. Finding everything else.
3. Goal-making. Based on values found during introspection.
4. Strategy-making. Hypotheses about how to achieve your goals.
5. Experimentation. Trying things. Playing. Iterating.
6. Finding fit. Person/universe fit.
7. Slogging. Executing. Doing the work.

As Buster* says, the ideal is to do all these modes of “work” in parallel.

Sitting here on a Sunday morning and deciding what today will focus on - I suspect the slog, part of which is organizing things so my assistants can take over some of the lesser sloggish tasks.

*Buster is behind that writing website, 750words.com, that you put me onto, Maggie. It’s shifting to a payment-site as of April 1st unfortunately (though understandably). Not sure if I will shift down to Evernote or stay with it. The analysis feature of 750words.com is fascinating…

You have probably already read this blog post, Maggie….

It’s official. Kiplinger declares anthropology is the worst college major for your career. We’re #1!

From Florida Governor Scott’s we don’t need anthropologists to Frank Bruni singling out anthropology in the New York Times, I’m tired of playing defense. We’ve worked hard to get to #1. Anthropology is the worst college major for being a corporate tool. If going to college is only measured by the job you will take immediately after college, then please choose one of Kiplinger’s 10 best college majors for a lucrative career. Please don’t become an anthropology major!

Anthropology is the worst college major for immediate career, but anthropology is the major most likely to change your life. And anthropology may help you change the world, although standard disclaimers about “starving artists” apply. But anthropology is also a great major to acquire lifelong learning skills–language, culture, thinking, writing, analysis–that enables success in several careers. Perhaps paradoxically, anthropology is a great major for analyzing corporations and capitalism, and you probably have just as much chance–if not more–of landing in the top 1% as an anthropology major as you do with any of those Kiplinger top 10 college majors.

Excerpts from a user review, which struck home with me as I look back and remember how hard life is in your 20s:

Basically, Growing Up on Zoloft is about two things: the rise and ubiquity of SSRIs, and the experience of growing up (middle-class and college educated yes, and yet still, you self-hating bourgie moron, subject to psychic pain on occasion) in America, and then of course how these two things have interacted….

While most people accept that some of us suffer from depression so severe that needing medication is not a question, we also know there’s a large grey area of folks for whom it is more open to debate….

One of the important points this book makes is that being young just fucking sucks for a lot of people. Sharpe worries that our culture has come to pathologize the normal developmental pain of life. The director of mental health services at Swarthmore tells her that these days, “there’s almost not a language for normal distress.” ….

One person I kept thinking of as I read was a former client of mine. She was a young women who had experienced a difficult childhood, and she had a severe psychotic disorder which had caused serious disruptions and delays in her life. She had finally become psychiatrically stable while I knew her, and was left to deal with the normal and often very painful problems of a woman in her twenties trying to establish a life. Towards the end of my working with her, most of our discussions consisted of me trying to convince her that her current experiences and pain were not pathological at all, but completely normal. She just didn’t believe me, no matter how hard I tried, and she wouldn’t consider longterm talk therapy because she associated it with sickness and stigma.

Good news!  You’ve been given moral free reign to go work for the big-time capitalists….